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Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

Patrick — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 12:54:57 -0000

Shirley Ann...I think there is an ever-increasing number of men out there, that possess that quality. Most of my straight, male friends, seem to celebrate the concept of equality. Many guys even seem okay with a dominant ( as opposed to domineering) woman. It's a turn on.
Things get messy when that dominance comes at the expense of their own masculinity, especially in front of other guys. It's a fine line, but it's there.

Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

Patrick — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 12:34:02 -0000

Hey there, I stumbled across this post by accident, and thought I'd share my humble viewpoint.

As a gay male, my perspectives are different, and somewhat nuanced, though no more accurate.
I agree with every post I've read, so far.

I like being a man because of the sense of action, intensity, and confidence the male gender embraces. It's the combination of brains, brawn, and testosterone, that allows a man to be a "guy". Simply put...it's empowering, but doesn't strip us of our sensitivity.

Yes, men are awesome, but that fact in no way detracts from the accomplishments, or abilities of women. It does however, carry a subtle difference. It's a difference that nature designed us to have, and it's encouraging to see it embraced, instead of ridiculed, as is often the case.

Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

jennb — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 22:31:08 -0000

I love the side of men they only let their women see that sweet little boy not trying to impress anyone just being himself

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jennifersage — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 19:32:38 -0000

Hello

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Elena — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 13:09:10 -0000

Heyy! Yeah, dead on! These were all the things I was going to say. I love the gentle strength of men... Somehow this seems intrinsically tied to their bodies... a strong chest and broad shoulders, sinewy forearms and big hands that could crush mine if it wanted to; seeing that body that easily takes up a strong and assertive space, in a high pressure job, or pounding nails on a roof in two heavy smacks, suddenly picks up a child or strokes your face with the gentlest touch... nothing is sexier. Wow.

Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

Shirley Ann — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 07:26:48 -0000

What I love about men is something that only some men possess. I love a man's
ability to see women as equals - not just talking the talk, but to be aware of when
women are marginalized...then speak out, or act in such a way to counteract the
injustice. It takes a confident man to to share the world in this way. That confidence
is very appealing.

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Will Wright — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 02:29:01 -0000

That's sad. I hope the men in your life provide you more opportunities to love them next week. Or at least that you find other moments of joy and love in your life.

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Kelly — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 22:26:39 -0000

I love their hands. They seem to tell the story of men before them and the things they will hold, work and love in the future.

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Jennifer Sage — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 21:51:11 -0000

The good thing about this is the sheer novelty when you do wear a suit. Everyone notices how totally hot you look. That is certainly the case for me with my smart casual husband. He appears once is a blue moon in a suit and all I can say is Wow!!!!!!

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Julie — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 21:42:57 -0000

Jess- So well put! I love how men are more simple with their words and actions (much easier to read than women most times!)

Additionally, I also love the goofy 1:1 time when a guy can be honest, playful and vulnerable. I love that I'm the only person that sees this side of him-- makes me feel so special! :)

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Funmi — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 19:49:51 -0000

Their swagger...and strength...and there's nothing quite like having a great debate with an intelligent man.

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Brenda — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 18:56:38 -0000

Not too much this week.

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alligator_kate — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 18:53:49 -0000

I love men who are not afraid to cook, push kids in strollers, and who will talk to women about cars or other traditional manly topics without talking down to them. I love feminist men, basically.
I love men who dance. I love big hands, broad shoulders, flannel shirts, old pick-up trucks, as well as men who are not ashamed to get a pedicure if they want one!

Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

alligator_kate — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 18:46:28 -0000

Hmmm.... I think that some men have lots of hidden meanings. My husband, a Pisces, is always trying to decipher the hidden meanings of his colleagues at the office, more men than women. Office politics has a lot of hidden agenda stuff in it (though I LOVE the recent recommendation on this site about the book 'Love is the new killer app' ... and then look at politics, plenty of hidden agendas there. But I do like straightforward men, and it sounds like your bf is one of those! My dh calls em "no b*s* guys", his favorite type to work with, and what he strives to be, too.

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Tara — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 17:53:11 -0000

I always love a mans strength (I'm only into 'real men' - you can keep the others). I also love how they keep it simple - a hard day of work, a beer with your mates, and sport on the tv and something with meat for dinner, the perfect day!

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Cindy - Classic Creative — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 16:57:03 -0000

Chivalry - there is nothing sexier than a gentleman! Opening doors, pulling out chairs, letting you walk on the inside on the sidewalk, pumping gas, etc...yum!

Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

congakeystone — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 16:22:10 -0000

One of many things I like about most men is that they say what is on their minds and appear to not worry about what people will think of them (as some people-pleasing people, like myself, do in the workplace).
I love mens' sense of territoriality, their sense of humor, their irreverence, and their episodes of unexpected sweetness.

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Kate — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 15:04:59 -0000

I love how men are all little boys inside! When they have a sparkle in their eye I think it's the child coming out.

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Kristen — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 14:56:02 -0000

Ever notice....they don't need to FIND themselves....hmmmmm

Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

fabuleuxparis — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 14:51:53 -0000

Gosh! So many things! Intelligence, patience, kindness, the outright worship of attrative women, calmness in bad circumstances, chivalry, protection. Of course these things are not in all men, I know. But thankfully I've had good male influences in my life. Daddy, Both Grandfathers and my Husband. :)

Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

Lisa M. — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 14:43:52 -0000

I love how men can just "get on with it" instead of sitting around moping or obsessing and over-analyzing situations. Men are not gossips. Men encourage each other. Men are programmed problem solvers and generally optimistic. They get things done. They build bridges. They errect towers. They worship at our feet when we treat them with love, kindness (and most importantly) as friends. They say what they mean. I'm a huge admirer of men. Next time around, I am coming back as one of the guys.

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stella — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 14:38:53 -0000

I love how physically strong men are. How they can wrap you up in their arms and you feel protected.

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Amy — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 14:22:42 -0000

I love men's bravery and ability to let go and love love love with gusto. The good men I know are an inspiration to me and I try to emulate the easy going parts of them as well as the loyal, true blue parts. I love that men tolerate being blamed for a lot! And I love that so many men I know are driven to learn and open more. I admire the men who have lived a long time and are still around to tell about all their glory stories in the war. There aren't many left but the ones that are are some of the bravest and humble souls in the world. Where would we be without them? It makes me tremble to think about life without the other half...

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Katasha — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 13:48:00 -0000

I love the arms, the emcompassing hug, the way they smell and the strong legs. I love when a man can politely put me in my place with a look, a gesture or a simple "Leave me alone" when I go overboard (and do I go overboard sometimes!). I love a man's SWAG.

Re: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

pemsical — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 13:16:03 -0000

I love that men think past "no." When men get stopped by something, they are eager for the challenge to make it a "yes," to get past the obstacle and get to the goal. Men create amazing possibilities this way, and remind me to keep going when I get stopped.