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With all seriousness and kidding aside, the second best thing I have ever done is a 50th hard-bound birthday book for a woman whose courage and grace battling cancer would bring tears to your eyes. As we all know, a circle of girlfriends can boost your immune system better than vitamins. I compiled pictures that memorialized this circle of friends and how the woman who was battling cancer touched each of our lives.
My professional reponsibility meant i had to put aside my own feelings of shock and devastation and provide care as the mother laboured thru the night when i just wanted to curl up and sob my heart out. It is among the hardest things i have ever done but i did good work. The mother had a normal birth and the father was blown away to be given his new born son to hold. The parents had good memories. They also were introduced to a world of grieving for the death of their precious son.
I encouraged the mother when her labour got challenging because i knew that she would be like every other woman after a straight forward birth. She would carry in her body, soul and spirit the sacred dignity of knowing how to birth her children (she has had other healthy babies).
I had at this time nearly 30 years experience as a midwife and every women i had cared for prior to that hot summer night helped me stay focussed on the mother to offer her my skills, my heart, and my time and hold myself together until after her son was born.
This experience was the beginning of the end of being a midwife (my choice) and starting my work as a hospice nurse and that is another story. A life changing story.
Before that, my CRASH BLOOM installation was pretty awesome. It was my last art exhibit where I reached beyond a "body of work" and made a big colourful beautiful mess in the gallery space, playing with images and media I loved (yarn, felt, collage, paint, text and photo booth portraits). I even recorded my (legendary in these parts) laugh and had a headset with it running continuously. That exhibit was about letting go of Art (with a capitol A) and getting back into the joy of the creative process.
"Peace is more than the absence of war. True peace begins with people as a way of life, before it is echoed between governments and nations. Through a single word translated in over 90 languages, Matjan's World Peace Flag reminds us of this wisdom, and the power that we carry in each moment of our lives."
~Gregg Braden
http://www.amazon.com/Grandmothers-Feng-Shui-Wi...
'In Her Room' is about the last weeks in the life of my husband's 24 year old niece who died of lymphoma. It is a book about death, life, love, hope.
I also went to university when I was 41, graduating at 46 with a Bachelor's in Social Work. It was, decidedly, the most difficult thing I've ever done and the most joy filled.
Then in 2002 my husband went through a seven hour surgery and was a year recovering. I took care of him. Perhaps this was my greatest accomplishment - my four stars - my opus. I hate physical illness and here I was confronted with it every day, every night - tubes, medication, everything I hated. AND I DID IT - with help and often by myself.
I'm constantly working on my best work. Each day, each moment, it's bigger and better: me. Sometimes it's painfully slow (not keeping moderation in mind), sometimes (auditioning terrifically for some network big-wigs) painfully good. Sometimes shocking (birthing and raising a boy), frustrating sometimes (producing a film). Reassuring (taking myself to church), empowering (working out daily), silly (jumping into a pool at 1:00 a.m. fully dressed!). At the end of the day, each one is better than the last.
Actually, I've been thinking a lot about my wedding in the past couple of days, as I've been trying to delve into the details to find my first word, which I'm still struggling with. We were married under a beautiful old twisty tree in Central Park (NYC), by a female Episcopal priest. I made my wedding dress based on a vintage Vogue pattern from the 50s, and knitted a wine chenille shrug to go over top. We recessed to a solo trumpet, and led everyone back to the party in a gorgeous old townhouse on 69th. The buffet was half Thai, half Canadian Thanksgiving, and the wine was from the French Embassy (yum!) My "wedding team" and I had made almost everything, from the flower arrangements to the tablecloths to the favors. People mingled. People danced. I had welcomed the trickster god in advance, so I was able to relax and enjoy it all. It really felt like "us" - and I really felt "married" when it was over.
So, C+D community - does that sound like "Classic Joy"? Unfortunately, while the words are supposed to sing, I keep saying in my head "CLASSIC (but not conservative) JOY!!"
We women truly shine when we plan a celebration of LOVE!!
LOVE the title crash bloom!
Cécile
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thinking now it's the way i just DID things for awhile - things i've always wanted to do, like travel. it was a couple of years ago and lasted for a couple of years. i took a drum circle facilitation course in hawaii (and travelled there solo). i took a drum experience trip (again, solo) to cuba and drummed with the holguin-equivalent of the buena vista social club. i went to the percussion society national convention in nashville. plus i took lots of weekend workshops on didgeridoo, doumbek, african rhythms, and saw the sun come up at many all-nite music jams.
i didn't question anything - the cost, the time commitment, anything. i just found things i liked to do and did them. people were constantly telling me that my life inspired them.
i don't long to do the same activities again, now, but i want to get that in-the-moment power back.
i think i lost it during 2006 when i took care of my baby dog buster who had cancer (she died in early 2007.) i started staying home, taking her to appointments, caring for her, and in the process also spent lots of money on her care. i don't regret this; but i need to get my mojo back!
thank you for this question.
We (hospice workers) get far too much praise for what we did when families care for their loved ones at home. I feel we have failed when that happens: we are only basking in the refelcted glory of a loving and committed family who was there for the whole journey.
It is a precious time in the life of a family and connects you all through time and place to the web of life of the human community in its most beautiful aspect: Caring for others and doing the yards that it takes, putting someoens elses need ahead of your own.
I only get paid to do this and no matter how well I do it that is a fact. I hope one day to offer myself to a friend or family member and do what you have done.
Peace and grace be with you.
I wonder if there is a national brides day in North America. I would live to see all the bridal photos of the women on this web site. If that happened I would get broad band. Vintage vogue with a chenille shrug sounds so delicious
I also made the leap to own and operate a business and the rewards have been nothing short of a miracle...the opportunity to create meaningful work in our everyday lives is there if we just remain present.
It was the saddest day of my life, and I felt so blessed to be able to give back even a fraction of the care my lovely Mom gave me throughout my life.
K.
K.
Up till now, my greatest triumphs have come from arranging something for others that worked out. Finding as many of my classmates as I could for a high school reunion and not "weeding people out" based on who they ran with in school. Throwing a fabulous engagement barbecue for my sister even though the engagement disolved. And designing and leading a couple of walking tours through downtown Toronto that people really enjoyed.