DISQUS

Carrie and Danielle: If you could write one book, what would it be about?

  • Traci · 11 months ago
    A teenage love story about girls who love themselves first.
  • alligator_kate · 11 months ago
    That would be great. We need all of these that we can get.
  • Wazzy · 11 months ago
    a story. about a little girl living in a fantasy world. she escapes to a world where anything is possible.
  • Juanita · 11 months ago
    I would like to write a book titled "Real Men don't see Dust". It would explain the difference between most (not all) woman and men in housekeeping roles so that couples would know what to expect when they decide to live together. I know it's probably an old-fashioned concept now but I separated from my husband two years ago and although housekeeping wasn't the reason for the separation it certainly added to the mess. I have 5 sisters who are married to housekeeping challenged men as well and we have theories that need to be put in a book. Of course I would keep it light and funny as it should be - that is the point - keep it light and funny and it can work.
  • Kristin_The_Goat · 11 months ago
    I would buy that book! My husband is housekeeping challenged and that's being nice.
  • Emily-Sarah · 11 months ago
    That's funny and too-often too true! My husband is one of the rare males with the ability to see dust -- and he thinks that *I* am the one a bit visually challenged. Housekeeping differences can definitely add to relationship strains (and can be symptoms of deeper underlying issues/struggles). My husband's 16-year-old niece lived with us for a year and her excessive messiness absolutely heightened the challenge of sharing our home and hearts, and I dare say possibly was a core manifestation that led to a deteriorating, stressful situation.
  • NGONZI · 11 months ago
    I like that...Real Men don't see the Kids either...lol...My friends and I have similar conversations...about what to expect from men....and how they view relationships, committment, girlfriends and marriage...I'm single...but I still see it in my relationships just not on the same level. Juanita, GREAT BOOK IDEA!
  • Nancy · 11 months ago
    I have found many women are unhappy & experience a strong sense of emptiness when they are not in relationship with a man, whether they are single or divorced, women seem to feel that something is missing without a partner. I would like to write a book that would inspire women to create really fascinating, adventurous, fun filled lives~ solo. There are wonderful advantages to being single & I would love to see people focusing on the joys of being single, as opposed to the drawbacks. If a relationship enters your life, great...but in those alone times, live an amazing, vibrant & exciting life without him!
  • NGONZI · 11 months ago
    Yes, Nancy!!! I feel you 100% I see this in some of my girlfriends. Some of the problem is their need of EXTERNAL LOVE & VALIDATION that they aren't getting from others- parents and/or themselves.....and INTERNAL LOVE / SELF-ESTEEM ISSUES....there is a missing link....and they are trying to fill it....with something...and sometimes anything....even it is destructive, abusive,.....because sometimes a substitute for love is better than nothing at all (to them).

    And from personal experience it is really hard to be single & happy while seemingly everyone is telling you or asking you where is your man/ when are you getting married.....

    The standards are different for a single 30yr old woman vs. a single 30yr old man....he's a bachelor....what is she?
  • Kristin_The_Goat · 11 months ago
    If I were to write a book it would be a motivational book. I love to inspire people and help them on their journey and I find that in helping others I help myself even more! My blog is usually fun, lighthearted reading, but every so often I like to write a little motivational piece.
  • NGONZI · 11 months ago
    Marriage & Love Relationships:Communication, Intimacy & Money. Tracing my family tree/Genogram. Rights of Passage Program for Black youth on Manhood and Womanhood. Hip Hop Christians (since many times when I think of Christians I don't think young, savvy, hip, cool....so a different perspective for young, Christians passionate about Jesus Christ...but not lame or stuck in tradition. LOL)

    I will have my first book published this year!
    www.lulu.com is where you can publish your book for free.
  • Janelle · 11 months ago
    I would write a book about waiting, and about finding true love...about crossing great distances and doing what you have to, whatever you can, to be with that person who is right for you. I would write about an old-fashioned, long distance love affair...that these things DO still exist. I would write about things that people today have forgotten about, from a young perspective, to remind everyone that some things ARE still important.

    And I think that I would also write about gentleman, those good men that often get overlooked.
  • ellabobella · 11 months ago
    They will all be about love, in the end.
  • Gail Larsen · 11 months ago
    I am blessed to have just written the book that reflects my gift of supporting others in going deep to catch up with who they've become, find what is theirs to say and communicate their own truth, well spoken. Transformational Speaking: If You Want to Change the World, Tell a Better Story was independently published a year ago and the second edition is now being published by Ten Speed Press and Brilliance Audio for a spring release. If you're ready to write your book, I wrote an eletter on "My Experience with Book Publishing: It Takes a Village", free to you at www.realspeaking.net.

    Don't delay! As my Obama tshirt says, "One voice can change the world. If one voice can change a room, then it can change a city; if it can change a city, then it can change a state; if it can change a state, then it can change a nation; if it can change a nation, then it can change the world." The world needs all of us to speak out, in our way, to support what we love.
  • alligator_kate · 11 months ago
    Congratulations on your publishing! Great title. Look forward to perusing your book :)
  • eloquencecomm · 11 months ago
    Hi Gail,
    I teach college public speaking and am a communication coach and consultant. I LOVE your book! It is flagged, hi-lighted, and written notes abound my copy. Thank you for your beautiful contribution to the world of communication. You and I share a similar heart and mind on the topic and I love your stories and ways of sharing the approach.
    (sorry that this is a repeat as I first posted it to the main comment stream when in fact I intended that it reply to your post... here I am correcting that...)
  • Linda Borland-Fitzgerald · 11 months ago
    The title is profound and I will be buying it for sure.
  • Kaiulani · 11 months ago
    I've actually got two books in mind. The first came when I turned 40. I wanted to write down 40 life lessons to give to my daughters. The second one is that I believe there is a reason people become your friend. That they are they to teach you something. It may be something minor or a life altering message. Either way I wrote down what each of my friends has brought to my life and what did I learn only because of them. The title would be "Life Lessons from my Girlfriends."
  • MoJo · 11 months ago
    I would channel Ayn Rand, Gabriel Garcia Marquez and John Irving to write an epic novel which puts disovering and living our own truths in a story format, leaving readers feeling truly grateful for their lives and experiences, and appreciative of their own magic and the beauty of THIS moment. The Journey to Now (har-har).
  • alligator kate · 11 months ago
    The play I am currently writing is about inspiration, madness, the creative process, self-acceptance, memory, and devils, with lots of dance and some puppets in there for good measure. These are some of my obsessions I suppose. Also working on a herbal about the spiritual, as well as physical, aspects of common plants. I would like to bridge the nature writing and creative writing together in my next project--- earth stories--- deep, true, and complex.
  • Kim · 11 months ago
    I would love to write a book on how to live life to the fullest and how to get past the little stuff when you think it is the big stuff. I would like to dedicate it to my grandmother, my mother and my daughter. I would like every woman to know that life is short and every moment counts.
  • eloquencecomm · 11 months ago
    Hi Gail,
    I teach college public speaking and am a communication coach and consultant. I LOVE your book! It is flagged, hi-lighted, and written notes abound my copy. Thank you for your beautiful contribution to the world of communication. You and I share a similar heart and mind on the topic and I love your stories and ways of sharing the approach.
  • Paul Taylor · 11 months ago
    It has to be my life over the past two years - no matter what I do in my life now I know that these past two years have been of great importance in guiding me down the path my life is about to take. To everyone involved whether you are one of my family members, a cousin i opened up to whom i hadn't spoke to in 11 years, university lecturers, my internet friends, a stranger whom i had a conversation with on my travels - you have all played a part and for that I'm extremely grateful. Thank you.
  • Danette · 11 months ago
    I've had books marinating in me since I was a child.

    Short stories, glimpses of raw beautiful life.

    A Harlequin Spice novel.

    Children's books, one day, I've been letting those ideas simmer until their time has come.

    And definitely, definitely, a gorgeous book sharing my own creative process, speaking to creative self expression and the gorgeous impact it has on your life. This one will be an inspiring, beautiful work book, with lots of fun and powerful exercises.
  • colleenoverman · 11 months ago
    What timing. I am sending in my proposal for The Acceptance Diet as we speak, which is a book about a "She" and her journey in giving up dieting, accepting herself and her relationship to food, and finding a joyful way to lose weight. It is a multi-chapter book in a rhyming poem format, with lighthearted black and white illustrations (think Shel Silverstein). Intended to be both playful and profound. A simple book that I am going to change the world with.

    Like Danielle, that is one book of many that live within me. My next couple will be on being who you really are and what do do when real life comes knocking.
  • Carrie · 11 months ago
    All the best with your book, I love the title!
  • Maureen · 11 months ago
    IF I only could write one book, I would be sad because I love to write books. But if I could only publish one, I might choose Extreme Teacher Makeover, which encourages men and women in the teaching profession to take a three month block of time in their lives and restructure the way they take care of themselves. There are chapters on fitness, nutrition, wellness, beauty and style, scholarship, passion, and inspiration. Teachers have a tendency to exhaust themselves, and exert themselves for others until they have little left to give. This book is an antidote to the unique sort of bitterness that teachers and other caregivers can fall prey to in their lives looking after others.
  • Connie · 11 months ago
    I'd write an astrology/fashion resource book. Or maybe 24 signs of the zodiac book. Or a tarot deck and book which revolves around fashion
  • Suzyn · 11 months ago
    I just finished editing an anthology about knitting circles (Knit It Together: Patterns and Inspiration for Knitting Circles, available for pre-order on Amazon!) Now I'm ready to go in a totally new direction. I've got a book about weddings that needs to be dusted off. This time, I want an agent...
  • shannon · 11 months ago
    .I think I would have to write about my own life experience of living away from my family not only once, but twice to pursue my own truth and having the courage to believe in myself and our love for one another to know that we would be stronger for it. Many years later my three grown daughters are amazingly independent, confident and self sufficient....they thank me for setting an example. My husband and I have never been closer and our relationship continues to grow stronger. When I made those moves when the family was young I rattled a lot of chains and it was not easy to go against cultural expectations ....it turned out to be one mind bending, love intensifying adventure!
  • Linda Borland-Fitzgerald · 11 months ago
    Like Daniel, I have several books in me. One is based on my my mother's life, a story that should be told. Before she passed away, I tried to get as much detail as possible but she had great difficulty with time lines, so I will have to embellish and make certain assumptions, but the 'main events' will stand on their own regardless.

    I also will write about my own childhood - a fearful, abused child who knew she would do something important some day. And, there's a play in me, a children's story or three and a lot of essays. I just wish I knew why I procrastinate?
  • laurie_matthews · 11 months ago
    I would write a book about place - weaving together history, travel ideas, what's on top of and below the surface of the common and out of the way places that I've visited during my years as an historical landscape architect. And combine these vignettes about the places I've visited and learned from with a way for other travelers and explorers to prepare for their own adventures by offering tips I've learned from traveling and researching the history of various places.
  • Daniel Gibbons · 11 months ago
    I'm very overdue in starting work on a book about my Grandfather's life. So, that has to be at the top of my list.
  • Cobby · 11 months ago
    if I could write one book, it would be a novel about a rip-roaring woman who comes unhinged. It would be comedic but would have a sweet and endearing core.
  • Priya · 11 months ago
    I would like to write about overcoming fears and personal insecurities - how to avoid falling into the "wanna be loved by all" trap and being happy with what you have. If I could find the answers to all this - I'd write the book!