DISQUS

pearl_mattenson · 11 months ago

Rick this is terrific advice. And I think there is something to be said about how to be if you end up in Act I. Or maybe, how not to be? That is, it isn't really helpful to blame your kids or make them feel responsible for what you have not prepared for as parent. And if you are late? In the scheme of things, staying calm and connected to your kids is so much more important than the consequences of being late - for them and for you.

IamSusie · 10 months ago

Good advice, but I'd add that the kids need to be on board with a happy morning routine with no moaning and groaning. Kids, being kids, will find something to resist about your best laid plans no matter how fair and thoughtful you've been.

In my house, none of us are morning people. Early in the school years my children would cry and throw fits about getting dressed. We all agreed that was a terrible way to start off the day, so we all came up with a plan. The wouldn't gripe, and I wouldn't nag and rush them. It worked out much better. That and getting the backpacks ready the night before...

Rick Juliusson · 10 months ago

Good point - we can't impose good moods on anyone, especially our kids.

Dennis C Carey · 10 months ago

thanks for the post

Sherry · 10 months ago

Nice one Ricky! I love your first paragraph, I've been there! All good advice, thanks for the reminder!

Love Sherry