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Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Storyeller — Sat, 13 Dec 2008 04:21:22 -0000

Aha, good suggestion, Susan!

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Storyeller — Sat, 13 Dec 2008 04:20:09 -0000

have to laugh, yes? Or someone gets their false teeth put through the garborator..."ooops! so sorry! now you'll have to gum your insults!"

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Susan Newman — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:01:23 -0000

And, I would add, tell your son and daughter-in-law to have another baby...or ask when they are having another. For ammunition on answering that mother-in-law "assault," check out Psychology Today: http://blogs.psychologytoday.com/blog/singletons.
Susan Newman, Ph.D.
author of Parenting An Only Child: The Joys & Challenges of Raising Your One & Only

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Storyteller — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 20:14:55 -0000

oh Helen, what a tragedy. These kinds of people end up alone. I feel bad that my MIL lives alone, in a city alone, but she refuses to live closer and does so many things that alienate her from us and others. I do feel a bit bad for writing this article but also hope that maybe others who can relate can stop the dynamic...I dunno. Usually worth sharing the story, anyway. Thank you for sharing yours with me.

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Storyteller — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 20:12:39 -0000

yes, she's a luddite, thank God

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Storyteller — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 20:11:25 -0000

Fabulous! Bring it on! I love your writing!

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Helen — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 19:46:19 -0000

You could have been talking about my mother-in-law! I used to turn myself inside out trying to get her approval, the sad thing is my husband, her only son died and she has never made any attempt to keep in touch or have a relationship with her 3 grandchildren although they telephone her about important milestones in their life. When I think about her I can still feel the humiliation I felt each time we spent time together and she would make comments about my (I now know) perceived shortcomings.

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Kathleen — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 19:10:28 -0000

Hahaha..what a fun chuckle. The greatest scripts in comedy are those that hit close to home. Reality is funny. Being able to laugh about it, well, it's the only cure. * miles of smiles*

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Jodie LaRiviere — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 16:55:04 -0000

Hilarious!! And too real to not be true...
I sure hope she doesn't find her glasses and this article anytime soon. :)

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

MoJo69 — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 15:19:50 -0000

Wow - that must have been a cathartic piece to write. I'm assuming your 'outlaws' don't read blogs? ;-) Great piece - my jaw was hanging the whole time I read it!

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Rick_Juliusson — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 13:54:33 -0000

Lucia, this is fantastic. I've already started a full article response entitled "How to be a
Stereotypical Son-in-Law." To be fair, we men ought to shoulder at least 4% of the blame.

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Jenn — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 13:42:23 -0000

I have a haunting feeling that my grandma had a copy of this in her purse at all times. I always felt so bad for my mom on holidays. Once I got to an age when I could see this going on, I really started to resent my grandma for how she treated my mom.

Huh, I hadn't thought about all that in a long time. I should give my mom a call...

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Storyteller — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 13:22:25 -0000

tee hee, thank you. At least in-laws can make for good comedic material if nothing else!

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Storyteller — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 13:21:28 -0000

Really, Lise? Yikes! I'm so sorry to hear it, but I'm glad that you married into someone kind.

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

Lise — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 10:53:07 -0000

I think you just wanted to use that awesome picture ;)

What can I say? My mother acts like this - it's my mother-in-law who actually treats me like a human being.

Re: How to Be a Stereotypical Mother-In-Law

pearl_mattenson — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 09:16:40 -0000

Lucia- THIS IS PRICELESS! Thank you.