http://carriedanielle.disqus.com/The go-to place for information, inspiration and how-to content on topics ranging from Beauty and Relationships to Wealth and Wellness.enWed, 26 Nov 2008 13:15:56 -0000http://carrieanddanielle.com/healthy-boundaries-how-to-stay-in-your-own-boat/#comment-4027048<p>Wow...look at all those typos....s/b Schnarch and Marriage. Pre-coffee post, what can I say? :o)</p>CarolynnWed, 26 Nov 2008 13:15:56 -0000http://carrieanddanielle.com/healthy-boundaries-how-to-stay-in-your-own-boat/#comment-4026129<p>One of my favorite books!</p>CarrieMWed, 26 Nov 2008 12:18:09 -0000http://carrieanddanielle.com/healthy-boundaries-how-to-stay-in-your-own-boat/#comment-4026115<p>so true Pearl. I love your wisdom.</p>CarrieMWed, 26 Nov 2008 12:17:25 -0000http://carrieanddanielle.com/healthy-boundaries-how-to-stay-in-your-own-boat/#comment-4024615<p>The concept of being in your own boat is used by David Schynarch, Ph.D in his book Passionate Marraige, as well. I think it's brilliant and very empowering, while also holding others capable, as Pearl has said.</p><p>Love the photo!</p>carolynnWed, 26 Nov 2008 10:47:13 -0000http://carrieanddanielle.com/healthy-boundaries-how-to-stay-in-your-own-boat/#comment-4024335<p>Yes, Yes, Yes, Carrie. Thank you for this reminder. And a perspective I would add is that when we do really sit in our own boat, we discover that other people are incredibly resourceful and creative seamen in their own right. It not only helps us maintain our own boundaries but gives us a good view to the capacity of others, as well. </p>pearl_mattensonWed, 26 Nov 2008 10:26:33 -0000