DISQUS

Gale Duggins · 9 months ago

My Mother just died after months of loosing weight, found out terminal illness of the stomach, I stayed with her in the hospital night after night for weeks and weeks, I still see every moment of those nights more so than past memories with her, I want her to communicate, I want her to tell me she is fine in Heaven, or what is it like..I am dealing with some heavy grief, I seem not to know what to do next, or where to begin, She was our every being, Our unity to the family. How can I deal with such sadness, and grief, I feel I will never be happy again... Can you tell me something about her

shonty · 9 months ago

My mother passed away 2 yrs ago from colon cancer, my mom was my best friend she was always there for me I have a daughter whom was born with a rare brain defect my mom helped me through everything. After my mom passed away my doorbell that takes a battery has no battery well it rings all the time many times in the middle of the night, early in the morning really any time of the day. I feel as if I am so lost without her ,like I wish I could disapper , sometimes I wish I was there with her. Before my mom passed away she asked me to be there for my dad and I have been, but he has used the passing of mom to take advantage of situations and my feelings and my keeping my promise to my mom. I just want to know if its ok to not deal with my dads everyday problems. As for many times he calls telling me he' ready to die and move on I am so depressed with losing mom and always haveing my dad call saying things. I just need to hear mom tell me its ok and shes not upset with me for ignoring dad alot anymore.

alyssa · 8 months ago

this is BULL SHIT!!! my dad just died two months ago and all i have had is nightmares!!!!!! is he mad at me??stop lying to people!!!! false hope and lies never did anyone good!!

Erin Bailey · 6 months ago

I just lost the father of my 15 year old daughter last month, it hurts me so bad. Every morning at 1:30 in the morning I would wake up for no reason and than go back to sleep shortly after waking. About a week after he died my daughter and I received a text message on our phones at 1:30 in the morning. My ringer was off on my phone so anything that came through on my phone I wouldn't hear when the ringer was off but this chime was so loud that my daughter heard my text all the way in her room. I feel a little selfish because I want him to be with me all the time and I don't feel him there anymore like before. Do you think he is still around me?

Help,
Erin